My Love…….

For Kanye. There. I said it.

No, I’ve not lost my mind. Ha. Please, let me explain….hear me out?

So many reasons but here we go.

1.) He’s brilliantly talented. Did you know he produced five tracks on Jay-Z’s Blueprint Album? That’s right.

2.) After a serious accident back in 2002 he had drums brought into his hospital room to work on a demo. Yeah, he’s a hard working MF.

3.) Not only does he spit some incredible rhymes but he has his own fashion line. What? Yes, I’m serious!

4.) He’s obnoxious, self righteous, arrogant, throws insults around as much I apply my lipstick BUT he knows exactly what he’s doing. He’s staying in plain sight and has made himself known to every single person breathing in air on this planet. He’s the manipulator of mind games and for that I congratulate him. He has the media wrapped around his wicked little finger. That’s genius if you ask me.

My favorite Kanye quote? “You should only believe about 90 percent of what I say. As a matter of fact, don’t even believe anything that I’m saying at all. I could be completely fucking with you, and the world, the entire time.”

You see what I’m talking about? He’s got a gift of mega bullshit. I declare him Bullshit Royalty. He probably secretly wears flannel PJ’s in the winter and is an avid fan of Dateline and goes to bed around 10 pm. Who knows the real story?

I don’t necessarily agree with the shit that comes out of his mouth sometimes  but I can’t help but laugh knowing he’s getting a rise out of everyone. Whether you despise or loath him, I bet you’ve said his name at least once. Think about that for a second. There are 7.4 Billion people in the world. Let’s just say half of the people in the world know of him or have had a conversation about him, that’s 3.7 billion people!?! Do you get that? Holy Shit!

Haters make fun of him and he’s laughing all the way to the bank because his name is EVERYWHERE. Every time someone makes fun of him whether it’s a SNL skit, Talk Soup, Late Night With Seth Meyers, he’s smiling that big beautiful smile. You have to admit, he is beautiful. That smile ya’ll! And yes, even Barack makes fun of Ye.

Now, for the real reason I love Yeezy, Ye, Kanye, Yeezus…His music. It speaks to me and I fall into a trance. So what? He uses some auto-tune from time to time, I don’t care. It’s the words, the beat, the meaning,  and so much more. My favorites….




Now if he can just hurry up and release the latest album he’s been working on “Swish” I’ll be thrilled. But for now, we’ll just have to keep watching him on Keeping Up With The Kardashian’s, TMZ, or possibly a skit or two on SNL. Oh, there’s always his rants on twitter. Either way, I’m watching, listening, and stalking Ye. This crazy fan will be waiting and possibly shopping for a sweatshirt today from your fashion line. Keep up your insanely fantastic antics and everyone will keep complaining 🙂

As your best pal T-Swizzle says “Haters Gonna Hate”.






Unconditional: Without limitations or conditions.

In my opinion, love should be a benefit you’re giving to someone that they’re able to feel safe in their skin around you. Your love should make them feel worthy and enough.

This is not just for your partner, husband, wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend. This is for your children, friends, or whoever you love.

Each of us have differences. To love someone you should welcome those differences. Do not limit your love for someone because they don’t see things the way you do.

When I love someone, I love them unconditionally. They’re the opposite of me? Even better. I learn from people that are the opposite of me.

Your love should be open minded, natural, give refuge to that other person. They should feel comfortable with you at their worst and darkest times. Love doesn’t choose when it’s present. It’s always there.

Do you have a partner, spouse, child or best friend that you love unconditionally?

How about yourself? Consider this question. Would you ride or die for you?

If you’re doubting loving yourself unconditionally pick out the positive things about yourself. Compliment yourself. As difficult as that sounds you should do this regularly. It’s a great mental exercise and you’ll feel better after you do this.

Remember, never think of yourself badly as your brain hears those thoughts and is lessened by them.

Get a handle on your thoughts my loves. You’re just as valuable as everyone else and worthy of unconditional love.

Make a list of the things you love about yourself and keep it close by if you need to remind yourself.

Do not hustle for your worthiness. Know deep down inside you are more than worthy. You have something to offer.

Pick yourself to love unconditionally. I guarantee you won’t be disappointed.

Loving yourself unconditionally will blow your mind. Confidence is the most beautiful thing in a person.

Go out and get yours….you deserve it!