Judgment & Acceptance


Why would you allow what people think of you to achieve power over your thoughts?

Is their judgment more meaningful than what you think of yourself?

Do not be a victim to their advice unless you ask for it. Some people do have your best interest at heart and have excellent opinions to give. You should know the difference.

Be confident in your thoughts and decisions. You do not require validation from anyone but yourself. You are always in control. If you’re not, get a handle on it.

Confidence should be a silent inner strength but insecurities stand out with a sign. People feed on those insecurities. Never apologize for being you and real.

In life we will be criticized, judged, and shamed but, remember their opinions are not facts. They’re not in your shoes and have no clue of what storms you’ve been through or are fighting right now. Do not allow your inner voice to drown.

Love your decisions and learn from the mistakes. We’re all awkward and imperfect in different areas and that’s what makes us original.

You’re good enough, worthy, and magnificent. Now, go out and prove it!



  1. Wendy · October 29, 2015

    Love the line on confidence should be the inner strength!

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  2. bleedingheartspoetry · October 29, 2015

    Beautiful.. But there are those like me. My opinion of myself is far worse than what anyone else could ever think of me. So while I don’t pine for their approval I also hope that they don’t give validation to the way I feel about my own worth. This is why I stay anonymous.. Why I hide in the shadows. Because even though I don’t want their love, I could never handle their scorn.

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  3. Kevin J. Hotter · October 29, 2015

    Awesome post!!! Yes, I just gave 3 exclamation points. That’s how much your article resonated with me. Well written. Well delivered. Well said. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Lennon Carlyle · December 6, 2015

    Reblogged this on Fabulous With Glitches.


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