~ Sigh…..Yawn…..Stretch….(Like a cat of course) ~
As we all know, most of us ladies work 50+ hours a week. Whether you’re putting out fires in an office, hustling in sales, taking care of patients in a hospital, teaching first graders at school, jet setting off to make a presentation with a potentional new client, etc.
There’s something about a girls night out that soothes the smart-mouthed sassy soul don’t you think? It gives us the opportunity to dress up, drink cocktails, dish on our dating lives or our married lives.
It’s always so sweet when our boyfriends, husbands or partners compliment us. But, yes, a huge BUT, there’s nothing like hearing it from your Besties AKA Ride Or Die Bitches.
I personally have multiple groups of girlfriends in different cities I’ve lived in. There’s a bond between us that seems armored and everlasting.
This past weekend I visited my hometown and had a magical night with my Besties from High School. Do you find that you can tell your girls anything? No judgement? Acceptance? That’s what I find in my girls. We can pick up right where we left off.
We dished on our sex lives, dating lives, work, families, old friends, fashion, what kind of lipstick we love, and the list goes on. We learn from each other every single time we get together.
I believe in this day and age a lot of women compete with each other in our careers and put each other down. I think women should build each other up and encourage each other. Don’t get me wrong, I know that you might be up for a promotion and Sabrina is up for it as well. Yes, you do have to look out for yourself and get that promotion. You have to look out for yourself when it comes to your career.
When it comes to your girlfriends you should make them feel important, boost her ego, restore her, and the list goes on. That’s what each of us needs from each other.
I love the honesty I get from my girlfriends. They’re truly my soulmates just like on Sex In The City I have my Charlotte, Carrie, Samantha, and Miranda.
Do yourself a favor and set up that event on FB and invite your girls for a night out on the town. Get that hair appointment set. Buy a new outfit, put your lipstick on, spray your favorite fragrance on and get turnt up!
I assure you it will be a fabulous night!