As I mentioned earlier this morning I’m going to be taking a new direction with my blog. I don’t want anyone to think that it’s just going to be erotica, fucking, fantasy, fetishes, etc. I’m also going to ask for your opinions on things having to do with relationships, love, intercourse, body images, the whole spectra of sex I suppose. It’s no secret I love sex and am capable of bad things. I am human right?
I was surfing online looking for inspiration for characters or just some eye candy. One thing I realize is that I’m totally into the Dad Bod. Know why? Because it’s REAL. Yes, we all want to be healthy and in shape but these actors and models are making tons of money to look like that. In most cases REAL men are working day and night and supporting their families or are just too busy to be “cut”, “swolled up”, “ripped” and whatever other fucked up words they’re using today for hard bodies. Besides, with me, it’s all about the mind, humor, personality, wit, intelligence, a connection with that person. I don’t care if you are bald, hairy, wear bifocals, are twenty years older, wear braces, have one leg…..If I were single, I would be interested in who you are, how you talk to me, if you intrigue me, flirt with me, what your interests are, etc.
I feel as if women are attracted to the mentality of a guy more than the physical images. I am probably way off here but that’s my mentality anyways. I would love to hear from other women here in the comments.
Men, it seems to me that with you, the priority is the physical aspect of women. I’m sure each guy is different but the majority of men I know, it’s the looks that they’re into. Would love to hear from you guys too in the comments.
What I’m trying to say here is when I start writing my fiction, sex stories, erotica and whatever else that comes up in my perverted mind, my characters are not always going to be perfect. Sure, sometimes they will be, depends on the character I’m building. But, when I write, I normally take pieces of my life experiences and use it and I try to find the images that best fit that scenario.
See below my pick of what I think is attractive. You can have a Dad Bod or be overweight and still be extremely sexy with confidence. No doubt that Idris Elba, Ryan Reynolds, John David Washington, Dwayne Johnson are fucking sexy as hell but this is what I’m talking about…..